About
I started this blog in 2007, June of 2007 if I remember correctly, while doing humanitarian aid work in South East Asia. A lot has changes since then and the blog has been an on again off again adventure. The bullet point version is as follows:
I typically identify as a switch though in recent years I primarily top
I mix my faith with my sex with my work all through my life so don’t be surprised when you see design theory applied to creation of optimal play spaces because creating a better world around you is a good and proper thing to do.
There is no regular posting schedule for this blog, but if you have a topic suggestion please email me.
I take exceptionally hot showers, prefer my coffee with cream no sugar, and enjoy foot rubs nearly as much as I enjoy tech talk.
Oh, and I’m passionate about making spaces that are inviting and comfortable for sexually submissive men because I want more people to play with and I can’t stand bearing witness to the pain any longer.

where exactly in south east asia?
mythun
September 15, 2007 at 1:41 pm
I’m sorry, but while I would like to be more specific about my location between the nature of my blog and the political situation in this region I don’t think that would be advisable.
Alisa
September 16, 2007 at 10:24 am
Hi Alisa
I’m another kinkster in exile, in China / southeast Asia as it happens. I wish I had your skills when it comes to erotic and political writing. What you wrote recently about expressing one’s sexuality *because*, not *inspite* of feminism, really resonated with me. Much sympathy, and good luck to both of us finding kink in the jungle!
x Charmaine
Charmaine X
November 17, 2007 at 2:17 pm
Charmaine,
It’s nice to hear from other kinksters in this part of the world. What are you doing in China?
kinkinexile
November 19, 2007 at 8:36 am