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Bondage musings
I really miss bondage. Japanese rope bondage is one of the first things I learned when I got into BDSM, and it still feels like home base to me. I’ve been thinking and writing a lot about bottoming, but this is one of those only as a top things. Well that [...]
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Subsection of a subculture
A lot of people find one part of the kink scene or another that interests them based on their fetishes or sexual preferences, however, I have a different type of distinction to work with. Sure I have my own specific fetishes as well as things I would rather like to avoid, but more importantly than [...]
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Safest place I’ve ever been
We talk about safety in a lot of different ways when we talk about kink. There is the party line; safe, sane and consensual. There are the various risks involved with various activities. And of course there is emotional safety. This latter one is the aspect of scene safety that I [...]
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What’s your favorite book?
Alright everyone, it’s audience participation time again!
What is your favorite BDSM or alt sex related book and why? Do you have a favorite author? Can you remember the first piece of kink literature you ever read?
I don’t think that I could personally name a favorite book. I’m fond of Midori’s Wild Side [...]
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Family Photos
I was thinking about making a post that tied in with the Boston fetish flea, but a self indulgent post about being in exile didn’t sound very interesting, luckily this came along…
I live in a country with pretty strict government censorship, so when friends send me music, movies, or even photos I tell them to [...]
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Your turn to talk
What was the first image of BDSM that you remember seeing? Did you stumble across it on the internet? Did you find your parents’ porn collection when you were in highschool? Did you know someone who knew someone?
For me it was always just there. My parents kept the sex reference books on the living room [...]
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