You’re not alone
Welcome to the net generation 🙂
One of my favorite wordpress features is the ability to see what terms people google to end up at my blog. Did you catch the use of the word “google” as a verb there? Anyway, I find it fascinating because it gives me a window to the secrets people keep between themselves and the World Wide Web.
One of the kink experiences which a lot of people I know describe and which I think will become less and less common is feeling like you are the only one. I admit there was a time when I thought that I would never find the kinky people in real life, but I never had the feeling of being alone and broken. I had the internet.
I wonder sometimes if I would have been kinky without the internet. I know I’ve said before that I was born this way, and I believe that wholeheartedly, but what would I have done about it. Sure, if I was very lucky I would have met the right people, or found the right magazines, but what if I wasn’t so lucky?
For those of you who were kinky before the internet what did it look like? When and how did you get the language to talk about it and with whom did you talk about it? How did being kinky feel before you had the words or the context to describe it?