Kink in exile

Notes from a kinky nomad

Toy Review: Ball Gag

I actually tested this out the same night that I tested the Clover nipple clamps, but decided it merits further testing. You see, the joy of a ball gag lies not in eradicating complaints, and snarky remarks from your bottom (though that is certainly an added bonus), but rather in the helplessness of it all. Just picture your bottom with his or her mouth forced open, unable to protest your misdeeds, the strap cutting across their cheek to hold the ball gag in place. It’s sloppy and dehumanizing, and isn’t that half the fun!

This particular gag from Sextoy.com is a classic design featuring a rubber ball (mine was orange, but I’m sure it comes in other colors as well), with leather straps. The rubber ball is about an inch in diameter, with just a little bit of give. The straps are made out of a sturdy leather, with solid grommet attachments and chrome colored buckle.

On the whole I thought this was a beautifully constructed toy. The solid leather straps, metal details, and bright orange gag begged to be forced into a bratty mouth, and if I didn’t live near Folsom St. I’d worry about what the neighbors might think. However, this is the first ball gag I’ve owned, so I learned some things about sizing. Namely, you should think about sizing before buying a ball gag. Is your victim a dainty damsel in distress, or a man built like an ox and in need of some training? This gag, at an inch, maybe and inch and a half, in diameter, is a lot for me to wrap my mouth around, but not enough for someone with a larger built. Luckily, these things come in a lot of different sizes (not to mention colors) so size up your prey and you’re ready to shop!

And a final note on safety — communication is extremely important, I can’t emphasis this enough. So if you’re going to be using a gag of any kind please remember to set up a safe signal of some kind and be extra attentive to your bottom. My favorite safe signal? Give them a cat toy to hold and consider dropping it to be a safeword. The ones with a little bell inside are noisy enough to get your attention.

Feel free to take a look at the BDSM section, or go directly to the orange ball gag. You can also brows all the sex toys if you prefer!

Written by kinkinexile

December 27, 2008 at 7:55 pm

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