Kink in exile

Notes from a kinky nomad

Maybe I should be meaner

I am not gentle when it comes to hurting people. In fact I have looked at the bruises the day after with horror and considered applying for a job with the Chinese riot police. I do, however, get off on getting people to where they want to be.

We hear a lot about dominance as demanding — do this because I told you. I get off on knowing that the subject of my affection craves submission. I want to hear him beg — for pain, for punishment, for ownership; what ever. I get off on that slip into head-space, but also on the gratitude. On seeing that sense of coming home in someone’s eyes especially when that someone is kneeling at my feet.

Maybe this post should be renamed “I had a good night last night and my brain is still fried.”

Written by kinkinexile

September 13, 2009 at 7:46 pm

Posted in headspace, personal, topping

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