Kink in exile

Notes from a kinky nomad

Pissed off, couldn’t resist…

Wait wait, man strangles woman with rope during what he described as a consensual sexual encounter, you say?

And you feel the PAT-OKC chocking question is unfair because what you did is consensual, you say?

But Susan Wright will be the first to admit that “there is still confusion between consensual BDSM and assault.” What does this bring the Fetlife murderer tally up to now?  Three at the least?  Consent is fuckin’ confusing man!

So, um…

By saying that not flagging a consensual kinkster as a potential predator matters more than getting as much information as possible into the hands of people who need it, you’re really saying that your poor, delicate ego is more important than other people’s physical safety. Their physical fucking safety! If you really believe that, you haven’t been mis-flagged. You are dangerously self-absorbed, if not outright predatory, and people are absolutely right to fear and avoid you.

Now might be a good time to take a good hard look at your community cause if you’re still trying to hide/deny/normalize abuse, you’re every bit as disgusting as your worst visions of mainstream backlash make you out to be.

Written by kinkinexile

May 7, 2013 at 2:35 pm

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