Kink in exile

Notes from a kinky nomad

Fluttering thoughts

Hi world, it’s been a while.  I’ve been really digging Pagan-house recently.  Awesome to see a non-porn-ish D/s blog on the Internet.  I also wrote some porn, and got some nice comments, and then had to find a way to politely explain that if I’m not dating you, the hardness of your cock doesn’t impact me (so please don’t update me on it).

I’ve been traveling, and fell off the bandwagon with regard to my yoga practice, which makes me feel unbalanced and craving brain-shifting experiences.  Some of these look like mediation, but because I saw a thing about flesh-hook suspension last week, I am also craving piercing.  And that’s problematic, since I don’t think I know anyone who does play piercing anymore.  And not like a big scary “I’m gonna hurt you” thing but as a “hey, help me tap into my brain’s wealth of self-induced pharmacology.”

And on another track, I’ve been chatting with a friend who likes gender-flipped misogyny as much as I do.  But I also find it…complicated…how easily I can come up with “don’t worry your pretty little head” comments.  Things that said to a woman would be beyond the pale in their promotion of rape culture and gender inequality but when said to a man…well, it’s fucking hot.  It would be easier if I could convince myself that somehow gender flipping is counter culture, and counter culture is radical and liberatory, but 1) I know that’s not true and 2) meh, fantasies are complex things, sometimes you fantasize about things you’d fight very hard against in real life – that’s just the way of things.

And this post was interrupted by two pick up artists sitting down next to me.  That was adorable, but the guy blushed when I called him 🙂

Written by kinkinexile

September 26, 2013 at 6:17 pm

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  1. Thanks for the shout-out – P-boy has been having a blast with the writing, and I think it’s a great exploration for him. Glad it is benefiting you, too.

    Lady Pagan

    September 26, 2013 at 8:06 pm

  2. “…fantasies are complex things, sometimes you fantasize about things you’d fight very hard against in real life – that’s just the way of things.”

    Yep. I spent enough time feeling ‘wrong’ about the bad and terrible stuff in my head. I came to terms with it a long time ago, and anyone (even that little voice inside my head) who tries to make me feel guilty about it can fuck right off.

    Ferns

    Ferns

    September 26, 2013 at 8:59 pm


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